Struggling with things that don't work

It has been one of those days.

Earlier this summer, I upgraded my mac operating system.  Then I noticed that my mac had slowed to a crawl.  Then I found out that I could upgrade my memory.

I installed the memory, but only half of it seemed to be working.  So I did a lot of pulling out cards and switching them, and finally decided something was wrong with the computer.  I took it to the apple store  yesterday, and had to wait for a tech, who told me it would cost $390 to repair.  I decided not to do it.  Then later I realized I probably had not pushed the top memory card in completely, so I went home and tried and got the memory to work.

Then I tried a time machine backup, which failed. I contacted apple support.  They said that I should go onto my admin account (which I normally don't use) and get a log of messages from the console software.  So today I logged in to the admin account and ran the backup successfully.  Then I tried to go back to the secondary account, but the backup still failed.  Then I tried to go back to the admin account, but the computer froze.

So I turned the computer off and on again, and the result was that I only got a white screen and could not get into my computer.

I decided that it was time to go do some yard work.  I went out and tried to water the bushes.  I discovered that my faucet was leaking.  After I finished watering, I dismantled the faucet and took out the washers.

I also tried to dismantle another faucet that was leaking, but that was one that had cartridges -- and the nuts seemed to have frozen so I couldn't get the cartridges out.  I have another faucet upstairs where the cartridge can't be changed, because frozen.  This seems to be an issue with faucets with cartridges.  The cartridges may not have to be changed as often as a washer, but then, if they freeze up, you have to replace the whole faucet.

I tried taking the washers to my local hardware store, which used to carry washers, but they don't any more.  I went to home depot and they also have stopped carrying washers.  Finally Berger hardware had some, tho not exactly the right size -- and no packing washers.  For that I have to wrap something around and try to get the right amount.

So I went out for the evening and just left the house.

The computer is working now, so I was able to get the log of the prior session. I posted it to the apple support forum and the guy there said that my external hard drive is failing.  My son has told me never to get Western Digital hard drives, because they always fail and this seems to be a case in point.  I'm ordering a Buffalo one, which seems to be more expensive, in the hopes that it's better.

Addendum: So, it turns out that the computer starts much faster -- and does not overheat -- when the failing hard drive is disconnected.  I guess the computer was making continuous attempts to access this drive.

Pictures from "The Sinking Ship" 7/29/15 at The PIT Theater

On the Death of John Sperry & my mom's love life

My mother told me the names of 3 of her boyfriends who she dated prior to marrying my father.  This happened a long time ago, so she said she was a virgin when she married.  The word “dating” means something different now, but there weren’t contraceptives then.  I did not find out these names, actually, until after my father died.

They were John Sperry, who she dated in high school, when they were both vacationing in Randolph, NH; Alan Horton, who she dated in college, but also when vacationing in Randolph, NH; and the third was her friend “Ernie’s” brother.  If I remember correctly, the last might have been called Douglas Stowell — but I’m not sure about that.  Mom also dated this third guy in college, but later than Alan.  Ernie was a friend of hers who went to Mt. Holyoke.  The brother went to Dartmouth. I thought I had already blogged about that, but I see I didn't post it.

My understanding was that in High School my mom was totally not ready for any kind of commitment.  In college, Alan Horton proposed to her, but she never could decide, so eventually he gave up and found someone else.  The third guy apparently broke her heart by breaking off with her after college.

I don't think she had any serious romances again after that until she met my father -- tho I couldn't be quite sure about that either.  She met my father in 1949, six years after she graduated in college, so she took her time.

John Sperry died July 2, 2015.  He was 93 years old.  He outlived my mother by almost a decade.

I never met him in person.  He contacted me after my mother died. We became pen pals. He sent me lovely photos, mostly of the west coast.  He lived in Jenner California.

He was constantly out hiking and traveling internationally, showing extraordinary energy and vitality.  His illness was rather sudden and quick.  I gather he died 7 weeks after being diagnosed with lung cancer.

It’s funny.  When my mother first died, I thought he would die in fairly short order. I was scared to write to him, because I was afraid to hear that he had died.

But he was such a reliable correspondent that I started taking his communications for granted.  

Then, in 2013, I was diagnosed with stage 3c cancer.  I started thinking I might die before him. 

Then, this week I wrote him, sending him some photos this time, and found that he had died — so I squeaked by and did not die before him, apparently.  Still I don’t know that it would be realistic to aspire to 93 for me.

RIP

Here’s another blog about him  http://tkmomentsintime.blogspot.com/

Casting Directors I have taken courses from

Erika Foss-DeMeza

Meredith Jacobson Marciano

Leah Shapiro

Ned Lott

Bob Cline

Misha Calvert
Joanne Levenger
Kimberly Graham
Lisa Fischoff
Allison Kirschner
Mia Cusmano
Janet Murphy Butler
Angela Mickey
Rebecca Yarsin
Bryant Falk

Scott Wojcik

Cindi Rush

Rachel Hoffman

Stephanie Klapper

Jack Bowdan

Barry Shapiro

Andy Roth

Harley Kaplan

Tisha Ioli

David Vaccari

Jennifer McNamara

Trey Lawson

List of Improv Courses I Have Taken

Please note that the date above is the date when this document was created, but I keep editing it

• Improv 3, Magnet Theatre, Ross Taylor, January - February 2021 via zoom
• Improv 2, magnet theater, Ross Taylor October-December 2020 via zoom
• Musical Improv 2 with Katie Hammond at The Pit Theater 5/9/19-6/28/19 (includes class show)
• Cherub performance 3/10/19 at NYU Langone d Evie Aronson & rehearsal with Evie Aronson
• Cherub rehearsal 2/10/19 with John Swift  -- also performed at NYU Langone d M Condon
• Musical Improv 101 with Eric Gerson 10/20/18-12/16/18 UCB + class show
• Musical Improv Power Up with Jon Bander 10/20/18 NYMIF
• Cherub Improv rehearsal with John Swift 9/23/18
• rehearsed and performed with Spooky Doings 5/5/18
• Cherub improv rehearsal with John Swift 4/6/18
• Practice and Performance with Spooky Doings 1/18/17
• Practice & performance with Geezers, Suzanne Hitchman, coach, 7/15/17
• Practice & performance with Spooky Doings, Shacottha Fields coach, 6/3/17
• Geezers: practice group & performance, Andrew Cornelius coach, 5/20/17
• Improv 412 UCB, NYC with Frank Garcia-Hejl 3/22/17-4/19/17
• Geezer improv practice March 2017; April 2017
• Monoscene with Michael Lutton, Magnet Theater, 1/8/17-3/19/17
• Character 101 with Chrissy Schakelford, UCB 1/7/17-3/5/17 this is actually a sketch class
• Volunteer subject for coaching improv class with Armando Diaz Magnet Theater 1/21/17-2/18/17
• Scenework for Musical Improv with Woody Fu, Magnet Training Center 12/1/16 through 12/22/16
• 10,000 hours drop in sponsored by the PIT
• Team Spooky Doings: rehearsals and performances
• DCM 18 workshop with Erik Tanouye at UCB, NYC 6/22/16
• Camp Magnet 2016 Dave Razowsky, Megan Gray, Jean Villepique, Michael Lutton, Elana Fishbein, Ed Herbstman, Louis Kornfeld, Rachel Hamilton, Hanna Chase 6/2/16-6/5/16
• Basic Harmony for Musical Improvisers with Dan Reitz April 2016
• 'Playing it Real," Improv Elective at UCB NYC Training Center with Gavin Speiller 4/5/16-4/12/16
• 48th Street Exercise with Gary Austin at Artistic New Directions (AND), NYC 4/1/16
• Musical Level 1 (retake) with Nikita Burdein/Miles Lyndahl/Frank Spitznagel at the Magnet Training Center 3/12/16-4/30/16
• Level 1 for Experienced Improvisers with Armando Diaz at the Magnet Training Center 11/15/15 - 1/22/16
• Special Effects with Peter McNerney at the Magnet Training Center 10/29/15-11/19/15
• Musical Improv Workshop with Rebecca Vigil and Dan Reitz 11/7/15
• Musical Improv Practice Group with Dan Reitz & Eric Gerson organized by Charone Frankel Spring-Fall 2015
• Post UCB 401 Practice Group with Chris Griswold organized by Shanelle Riccio Summer 2015
• "Embracing Musical Tropes," with Nikita Burdein at the Magnet Training Center 8/1/15
• Camp Magnet 2015 (D Razowski, M Grey, R Andrews, L Kornfeld. E Herbstman, R Hamilton, A Marino)
• UCB 401 June-July 2015 with Eric Tanouye
• UCB 301 March - April 2015 with Dave Siegel
• Musicality of Musical Improv Winter 2015 with Rebecca Vigil & Dan Rietz
• Scenework for Musical Improv with Woody Fu 3/29/15
• Face Your Improv Fears Caitlyn Steitzer 2/8/15
• Musical Improv 2 November & December 2014 with Ryan Dunkin, Jon Bander, and Frank Spitznagel
• Artistic New Directions Intensive with Scotty Watson and Michael Gellman November 2014
• UCB 201 Summer 2014 with J Jennings & Nicole Drespel
• Camp Magnet 2014 (Dave Razowski, Rachel Hamilton, Eric Hebstman, Alex Marino, Rick Andrews, Louis Kornfeld)
• Scene Rebooted Greg Hess 5/10/14
• Improv Cabaret 4/11/2014 with Barry Shapiro
• Musical Improv 2 March - April 2014 with Ryan Dunkin & Frank Sptiznagel
• Musical Improv Level 1 Michael Lutton & Frank Spitznagel December 2013-January 2014
• UCB 101 intensive: summer 2013 with Dave Siegel & Dan Fanelli
• Short form drop in with Beth Hicks summer 2013
• Pro-(positive) Choices Dave Razowsky June 17, 2013
• Level 4: Senior Project - Deconstruction with Alex Marino April - June 2013
• Level 3: intro to Harold with Louis Kornfeld Feb-March 2013
• Level 1& 2 Intensive: with Rick Andrews & Louis Kornfeld January 2013
• Magnet Drop In at various times with Sean Taylor, James Rivera, and Frank Bonamo
• Hip Hop Debate drop in at various times with N@t the Fourth and John Heffley

I was also on a Magnet Theater " Circuits" team coached by Sebastian Connelli.  Hannah Chase was a visiting coach as well.

Lousy @WholeFoods shopping trolley

One of the things I try to do in this blog is document products that break prematurely.  One such product is a shopping trolley that I bought from Whole Foods about a month ago.

One thing that has happened is that the sleeve that holds the drawstring has pulled off.  Here you can see where I've improvised a bunch of safety pins, held closed with gorilla tape, to hold the draw string.

Another thing that has happened is that the rectangular piece at the bottom of the trolley, which is there to give the trolley structure and hold the cargo off the wheels, is breaking through the fabric.   Here you can see where I have put gorilla tape over the corners, to keep protect the corners where the holes are and keep small objects from falling out.

Marble Hill Train Station

Before I moved to Tarrytown, NY, I lived in New York City.  The whole time I lived in New York City, I never heard of the Marble Hill Train Station.  After I moved to Tarrytown, I learned that it is a transfer point to the NYC subway system (#1 Line) from the Hudson Line of MetroNorth.  Hundreds, maybe even thousands, of people transfer there every day.

Here's a picture from the Broadway Bridge.  You can see the station, down by the Harlem River, with four flights of stairs leading up to the street.

Here's a very short YouTube video I made of this spot 

There are another three flights of stairs to get up to the #1 subway, as it's an "EL" there.  Here is a picture of the additional three flights of stairs to get to the subway.  

There's no elevator.  This is probably the least handicapped accessible train station and transfer point I've ever heard of.  The people who transfer there have to be in good shape.

Not very PC 

On the other hand, it's an amazingly beautiful place.  It overlooks the Harlem River to the south.

Here's the Broadway Bridge from the station.  It's a bridge that can rise up like an elevator on the towers to let boats, through, tho it's rare that they do it, because the #1 subway goes over the bridge.  One time I did get stuck for a long time on the #1, because the bridge was up.

The north side, which is blasted out of the rock, is also picturesque.  Maybe you can see from the width of the roof how very narrow the single platform is at this station.

When I sit on the platform and look to the river, I feel like I'm on the porch of a resort, looking at the water.

It's sort of an anachronism, not having an elevator -- but perhaps that comes with the territory of having such great natural beauty.

So I just thought I'd tell people about it.

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I'm just fascinated with this place. Here's another video

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Addendum 230408

I found an interesting historical article that includes some information about the Harlem River and Marble Hill

Reconnecting With The Harlem River